As I stand holding the third invitation we've received to a carnival/circus-themed kid's birthday party this year—this one complete with big-top tent, popcorn machine and balloon-animal-making clown—I feel both relieved and slightly guilty.
Holden's second birthday is this Saturday. I've opted not to throw her a big party this year because I. just. cannot. I think the party I threw for her first birthday was cute and not really too over-the-top and even that was more effort than I care to spend this year. I mean, don't tell me you've forgotten about those damn rainbow cupcakes.
So for Holdy's birthday, we're taking a trip to the zoo and then we're inviting grandparents over for a cake that I will (hopefully) make. I like to think I'm not depriving my child or traumatizing her by not throwing the big party.
I enjoyed having a summer birthday growing up and, if the weather was nice, we'd spend the day at the pool and I'd get a thrill if my birthday was announced over the loud speaker. I was usually able to invite a friend to the movies and then we went back to my house for cake and ice cream. It was enough for me.
Part of my inspiration in starting this blog is that I think we as parents/homeowners/cooks/humans are placing too high expectations on ourselves to lead a Pinterest-worthy life. It's exhausting.
So I'm taking myself out of the game on this one. I can't compete with the photo booths and handmade decorations and popcorn bars. There will be no clowns or paper garlands or custom party favors. There will be zoo animals, and birthday pizza, and a (hopefully) handmade cake and, of course, the birthday clock photo. And it will be enough for me. And for Holden.
Let's all just cut ourselves some slack.
oh and p.s.—this is the cake I'm attempting tomorrow night: The Best White Cake Recipe. Just because I'm not throwing a Pinterest-worthy party doesn't mean there won't be Pinterest fails.
Remember this one?